Posted by Vienna on December 04, 2002 at 19:42:35:
In Reply to: Re: stuff I am thinking posted by Anna on October 06, 2001 at 01:31:09:
I have been with my partner for a little over a year. We want to get married. He is 34 and I am 23. He has been married and divorced has a 6 year old son and I have naever been married and have a 4 year old son. I love him very much, but I am having feeling of inadequecy due to the fact of his previous marriage. He was with his ex wife for approximately 10 years. I feel that I am being cheated. I want him to have not been married before. I feel that he has said his vows and pledged his heart and soul to Lisa his ex a long time ago and that he belongs to her. Now and forever. I feel like I am second rate because of his marriage bofore. Am I being selfish or is anyone else having these feelings that I am? What is your opinion?
As for you