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Safe Haven - This is the place to express feelings, pain, memories...for people who have lost a loved one.


  • Some Posts Were Lost, Pls Repost - Diane 16:18:56 6/07/2002 (0)
  • Better place................ - Yy 22:53:25 4/02/2002 (3)
  • Miracle heard - David 11:50:24 3/25/2002 (2)
  • Our Board Has Been Restored - Diane 11:21:40 3/20/2002 (0)
  • Widowhood - Richard 04:58:07 12/25/2001 (4)
  • Merry Christmas Dad - vonnie 22:48:09 12/22/2001 (0)
  • Family - David 16:09:43 12/18/2001 (0)
  • Needing some help - Kimberly 21:32:38 12/12/2001 (4)
  • Re: how do you get past the guilt? - Eric wife Heather 22:22:59 12/11/2001 (0)
  • Happy Anniversary - Geald's wife 16:01:27 12/11/2001 (0)
  • pain - Nancy 23:14:56 12/10/2001 (0)
  • goodbye my everything - Eric's wife Heather 22:04:45 12/10/2001 (3)
  • ~*~Todd~*~ i love you my Husband. i miss you forever. - Todd's wife, stephanie. 00:47:16 12/07/2001 (2)
  • I miss you - Avy 16:54:46 12/05/2001 (2)
  • Removed from life support - Sarah 20:40:54 11/30/2001 (6)
  • Brain Aneurysm - Paul 15:06:47 11/22/2001 (2)
  • Thank Him for the Thorns - AK 21:04:26 11/21/2001 (1)
  • Widows & Widowers Need Organising - John Chittock 13:49:36 11/16/2001 (7)
  • Facing the Holidays Alone for the First Tme - AK 19:41:55 11/15/2001 (3)
  • How do you go on? - Katharine 15:10:43 11/09/2001 (3)
  • I Hate Holidays - Barbara Whitcraft 13:43:57 11/06/2001 (6)
  • I Hate Holidays - Barbara Whitcraft 13:41:44 11/06/2001 (3)
  • HELP! - sad couple 10:20:31 10/25/2001 (4)
  • needed to vent - cml 13:52:18 10/23/2001 (2)
  • feeling very lonley - elaine reed 20:27:33 10/21/2001 (44)
  • Jeff will always be with me....but I must go on without him.... - Karen 20:53:55 10/12/2001 (5)
  • Little People - David 18:29:04 10/08/2001 (0)
  • Widowed at 33 - VJB 18:48:24 10/05/2001 (6)
  • Widowed at 33 - VJB 18:46:39 10/05/2001 (0)
  • thank you - kathy mercier 18:14:09 10/04/2001 (0)
  • Please Help! - Vixon 10:19:10 9/17/2001 (5)
  • brother loss--(long) - lorraine haley 04:40:21 9/07/2001 (2)
  • Help for friend - Christina 06:14:19 9/06/2001 (3)
  • I MISS HIM SO - JUDI 13:12:30 9/05/2001 (5)
  • Do people think before they speak or just ramble uncontrollably - Carissa 14:16:41 8/31/2001 (2)
  • Loss of my husband - Andrea DeCuzzi 10:05:52 8/31/2001 (4)
  • I lost my wife so tragically, how do I go on? - Mike 07:33:52 8/31/2001 (2)
  • too soon for relationship? - Cindy 16:27:28 8/30/2001 (5)
  • Life does go on... - Carissa 12:46:28 8/28/2001 (2)
  • Nitwits! - AK 18:42:56 8/23/2001 (3)
  • My Best Friend..... Ahhhh... why? - KD Bosch 22:57:06 8/21/2001 (7)
  • 3 months already - kristen 21:42:00 8/21/2001 (3)
  • The Waffle Iron . . . - AK 21:33:24 8/17/2001 (6)
  • Will the Tears Ever Stop? - AK 00:08:53 8/12/2001 (8)
  • Just Lost My Husband - Lucy 19:36:19 8/06/2001 (11)
  • Is anyone there? - David 14:27:25 8/03/2001 (2)
  • stuff I am thinking - Ted Cottrell 14:24:40 8/03/2001 (14)
  • Where to go from here? - Theresa 09:49:35 8/01/2001 (1)
  • only 19 with 2 year old and one on way - amylou 10:58:31 7/31/2001 (1)
  • My wife died of Breast cancer - Ted Cottrell 19:44:54 7/29/2001 (1)
  • Different kind of widow - valerie 12:39:16 7/29/2001 (3)
  • Car accident - Kristen 15:34:23 7/28/2001 (0)
  • LOST MY HUSBAND & TWINS::::: in the same YR.. widowed age 29. - Evalani 12:04:27 7/25/2001 (6)
  • Just lost my husband. - Nadine P. 16:45:41 7/24/2001 (6)
  • Lost my young wife - jb 08:35:22 7/23/2001 (11)
  • Feelings I can relate to. - Mary Ann 23:42:55 7/22/2001 (0)
  • Flight to Heaven - Jennifer 14:34:44 7/17/2001 (0)
  • widowed at age 35 - Lori 01:58:56 7/14/2001 (15)
  • In-vitro to have babies after loss of husband - patti 09:06:34 7/07/2001 (1)
  • my poor husband...what do i do? - ana 09:22:22 6/02/2001 (8)
  • I've lost my other half - DF 20:12:45 6/01/2001 (2)
  • A "Love" Story (PLEASE read this) - Tanya Boyle 22:04:53 5/31/2001 (2)
  • with love..... - Tanya Boyle 21:52:03 5/31/2001 (1)
  • soaring - David 06:46:49 5/30/2001 (2)
  • Loss of wife and child is tearing me apart - Bryan Cady 20:31:44 5/27/2001 (13)
  • COMPLETE SHOCK RECENTLY WIDOWED - SANDRA 16:56:17 5/03/2001 (11)
  • Where can I find a chat room to talk about my husband? - Maggie 21:24:52 4/29/2001 (3)
  • loss of a great tennis guy - Joy 14:20:24 4/29/2001 (0)
  • Support Groups - Gary Garcia 18:26:16 4/27/2001 (2)
  • Boyfriend of 6 years died suddenly at 24 - Mary 16:19:51 4/19/2001 (10)
  • I am alone with a toddler who has never met his Daddy - Helen England 17:17:40 4/13/2001 (9)
  • she was only 13 when her nude, lifeless body was found - keona wright 22:39:35 3/31/2001 (1)
  • To Eva, the greatest woman of my life. - C.D. 08:07:04 3/30/2001 (0)
  • her shoes - David 07:43:30 3/30/2001 (1)
  • missing - marie b 20:56:30 3/29/2001 (0)
  • The kids.... - Bobbi 15:06:59 3/27/2001 (6)
  • I lost my sister when I least expected and didn't get a chance for my FINAL GOODBYE! - Grisel Lebron 14:47:13 3/27/2001 (4)
  • This is the first time I've talked about this, so please lend an ear. - Iris 21:28:08 3/26/2001 (3)
  • Help, my best friend's dad died and i don't know what to say. - Bell 12:59:48 3/26/2001 (4)
  • She passed away May 1997 - Chia Kee Seng 12:13:10 3/26/2001 (0)
  • I don't think I'm gonna be able to make it this time.HELP - Cristy G 11:22:37 3/26/2001 (3)
  • Loss of my husband - YBryson 13:38:46 3/24/2001 (19)
  • 6 months - marie b. 03:20:40 3/17/2001 (2)
  • Overcoming the loss of 2 wives. - Neal 20:13:33 3/15/2001 (1)
  • Stupid VCR ... also known as "Will this ever get better?" - Sandra P. 20:23:57 3/14/2001 (5)
  • I Lost My New Bride - Mike 21:17:28 3/11/2001 (4)
  • tempered - David 19:02:53 3/11/2001 (4)
  • pain - tiago 09:31:49 3/10/2001 (0)
  • ALWAYS GET KRANKY - marie 19:16:40 3/06/2001 (2)
  • brother loss - Kenetta 08:12:02 3/06/2001 (1)
  • Lost wife after long illness - gapper 11:33:10 3/04/2001 (2)
  • blindsided - David 21:05:30 3/01/2001 (0)
  • Loss fo Jon - Shirl 11:33:43 2/26/2001 (2)
  • Two years - John 19:15:00 2/25/2001 (2)
  • I can't began to tell you how I am hurting since you left - Michelle 18:08:24 2/22/2001 (0)
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  • Re: Lost My Dear Wife 10/29/00 - Sylvia L. 21:33:08 2/08/2001 (0)
  • loss of husband and pregnant - Natasja van Tuyl 07:44:30 2/03/2001 (2)
  • Lost husband 1/31/00 - Theresa 14:36:48 1/31/2001 (3)
  • In This Life - Sylvia L. 00:47:00 1/29/2001 (2)
  • Lost my husband Dec 1 2000 - Jennifer Miller 19:24:35 1/27/2001 (4)
  • pain - human being 06:23:54 1/25/2001 (1)
  • Guilt and Grief - Jason 20:26:30 1/23/2001 (11)
  • Dearest Breanna - Bluchie 08:16:06 1/13/2001 (0)
  • My Baby Is Dead - Bluchie 07:43:38 1/13/2001 (5)
  • Holidays and Special Occasions - Janice 22:41:20 1/10/2001 (3)
  • losing my love - Oscar 11:17:28 1/05/2001 (2)
  • Losing my wife - John 19:40:27 1/04/2001 (9)
  • Starting Over - Malc 13:28:46 1/03/2001 (2)
  • My Start - Lou 16:12:15 1/01/2001 (1)
  • loss of a husband - Dreama 17:53:08 12/22/2000 (9)
  • Help for kids - Sylvia L. 22:59:35 12/19/2000 (2)
  • My only love, my heart, my life, my joy - Kim 18:58:49 12/06/2000 (0)
  • Christmas Cookies - Sandy 11:51:38 12/06/2000 (1)
  • I love you till the end of time........ - Doug 18:43:49 12/03/2000 (9)
  • More Hurt - Katizia 09:13:26 12/03/2000 (4)
  • Soulmates - Donna 20:55:26 11/07/2000 (5)
  • No One Sends Me Flowers Any More - Keith's Wife 16:57:46 11/07/2000 (2)
  • Journey of Hope - Mike Domingos 13:26:33 11/06/2000 (0)
  • WIDOW - Who Is She What Is She - Noreen McBride 08:35:43 11/01/2000 (0)
  • Soul - Thaddeus 20:40:52 10/26/2000 (0)
  • There is so much pain - Tammy 15:23:25 10/23/2000 (2)
  • Still can't let dads memory go...... - Gail 07:44:56 10/17/2000 (3)
  • So Very Sad Today - Oct. 10, 2000 - Katie 19:16:49 10/10/2000 (4)
  • Help My 32 yr old wife and soulmate died in my arms 9/25/00 - Bill 09:32:33 10/08/2000 (9)
  • Re: Sudden, unexpected death of our youngest daughter - James and Nancy L. Carl 02:31:30 7/28/2000 (6)
  • Looking for New Sites for young widows to post - may 21:13:40 7/26/2000 (18)
  • Good Forum - Bruce Bell 16:44:57 7/24/2000 (0)
  • its all about one question - how can we live without our loved one? - Daniela 02:40:17 7/09/2000 (9)